It lead me somewhere I did not expect at all! — My 90 days writing experiment has come to an end. As a personal growth coach, I love striving to do better and see where I land. The 90 day concept is popular in the realm of behavior change. It is called the 21/90 rule, which implies it takes 21 days…

Hint: She is a ghost of my past but she is not scary, only lost. — This morning I hit the count of 100. It was a milestone. An intentional one. If you have not come across my previous posts, I have goal posts for everything I can control. I set out to write 100 articles but not so soon. What happened is that I started…

To those who think leaving a 9 to 5 is stupid, you do not know me or my story — It was a Thursday afternoon. Somebody was explaining something to me, with so much passion (or was it over eagerness because coaching me gets him promoted). In anycase , I felt nothing. In fact, after we cut the call, I stared at the ceiling. I could not move. My mind…

We are not all cut from the same cloth — Are you more of an entrepreneur? Or an intrapreneur? Are you constantly wondering what an office does? Are you not meant for corporate culture? Let’s find out. 1. The concept of a 9-to-5 confuses you For the life of you, you do not understand how someone activates his work mode at 9 am on the dot. Then as…

Let self-justice prevail! — The more I introspect, the more I recognise the voices in my head. And geez, they are so vile. The sad part is that the voices are what we all have in common, just with differing degrees of harshness. The happy part is that we can train ourselves to be…

Take 1 — Subject to change based on future reality — 2023, oh what a year already! Does it feel like time is flying? Yes, the year is going to pass us by in a jiffy. And it is not just you, so don’t worry. We all feel it. Times are evolving rapidly and we are in for even greater changes. …

Building incentives for a winning mindset all year round. — Rest assured that I am not asking you to sign up for the gym and then quit in a few weeks, external motivation can only get you so far. According to Chinese philosophy, it is believed that your actions at the start of a new year impact your luck in…

We are too quick to jump to negative conclusions — I have coached a few professionals that have been denied a promotion at the end of the season. Usually, they are disappointed, frustrated and above all, feeling low on self-esteem. When you have worked hard on something for weeks or years and the outcome is not as expected, there is…